I am the type of person who reads all the directions before attempting to assemble something. I read every word of the syllabus when I start a new course. I Google how to do everything if I have the slightest inclination that I might not know what I’m doing.
I want to know exactly what is expected of me and exactly what I need to do to succeed. Give me the steps. Outline the goals. Leave out no detail.
A classic example of this is that time I tried to cook something. (It doesn’t happen often.) The first step said “Cook chicken”.
I blinked at the recipe.
For an amateur chef like myself, “Cook chicken” is far too vague. How in the world do I “Cook chicken”? Do I boil it? How much water should I use, and how long should the chicken be in the pot? Do I bake it? On what temperature and for how long? Do I fry it? Wouldn’t that require oil? How much oil? What kind of oil?! Vegetable? Canola? Olive? Motor?
My blood pressure was high.
I stood in the kitchen perplexed. I yelled at the recipe, “If I knew how to “Cook chicken”, WHAT WOULD I NEED YOU FOR?!”
It didn’t respond. We had pizza that night.
If the instructions for anything are lacking, I feel like I’m being told to “Cook chicken”. I have no idea if I am doing it the right way or if I am going to expose my family to salmonella. I despair that I might not achieve my goal with such shoddy directions. After despair comes frustration. How can you expect me to do something without telling me how? Anger takes over, and nine times out of nine, I just quit.
Jesus gives a lot of “Cook chicken” directions. In the Gospels people are constantly standing around, listening to Jesus speak in parables, totally confused as to what they are supposed to do with his instructions. Even the disciples require further explanation from time to time (Matthew 13:36, Matthew 15:15, Matthew 16:5-12).
How can God expect us to know what to do and how to do it if He isn’t crystal clear? How can we succeed at following Him faithfully when our instruction manual seems to lack so much detail?
If I know God, I suspect His directions are vague on purpose.
Unlike the recipe people, He doesn’t leave out details because He is assuming we know how to “Cook chicken”. He knows full well we don’t.
I think He leaves out the step-by-step instructions to life because He wants us to realize we need Him.
Don’t get me wrong. Even if He gave us a detailed plan for our lives the day we were born, telling us what to eat, when to breathe, who to talk to, what to say, where to live, what to buy, who to marry, when to have kids, what job to take, when to retire, etc., etc., etc., we’d still need Him. It’d just be a lot harder for us to realize it. A lot of things He’d want us to accomplish, even though we’d know exactly what they were, would be un-accomplishable without Him. Despite our knowledge of the plan, we’d still be lacking the supernatural component that only comes by admitting our need for Him and willingly depending on Him.
For example, suppose He told me He wanted me to go to Central Church on Sunday, June 5th, and teach a group of women about Exodus 3 at 11 AM in room 1265. Suppose He gave me a script of what to say from the time I entered that classroom to the time I left it. And suppose He even stated His goal: each woman should grow closer to God as a result of the lesson.
Even though I am adequately aware of the plan, I can’t make the Holy Spirit connect with these women. I don’t have the power within myself to grow them spiritually. God grows souls, not me. I still need God.
Back to my point…
It’s easier for us to realize we can’t do life well without God when He doesn’t give us all the directions. We’re more aware of our neediness. We are more motivated to read the Bible and pray and seek God’s opinion on matters. We’re more apt to look for promptings from the Holy Spirit in our daily lives.
We learn that when God says, “Cook chicken”, if we want it to be edible, we have to rely on the Lord.
HAHAHAHAHA, nice analogy. It ranks right up there with, “wash, rinse, repeat”.
How does “rely on the Lord” work out in your life? DO you ever get the directions, or do you just do your best and hope he helps you out?
Stephen, I think it’s both. “Relying on the Lord” means depending on Him to make the way clear. Sometimes, thru prayer, Bible study, and/or other people, He gives straight-forward directions. Other times, when I am unsure and He doesn’t seem to be making things clear one way or the other, I just have to make a choice and go with it, trusting that He will let me know if I’ve taken an unwise step.
What do you think?
Isn’t it crazy that so much of what God does or doesn’t do is an acknowledgement of our failure as a fallen race to be able to respond with honesty, insight, and will? We are so messed up God has to constantly treat us like terrible two’s toddlers.
I like it… for some reason as I was reading this I was thinking of Pastor Ernie’s comment yesterday that it’s easier to direct a moving car than a parked one… God wants us to move towards Him/serve/do and He’ll fine tune the direction/course as we follow His leading.
Such great wisdom in this- I also like to have everything spelled out. I actually have a print out telling me how to boil an egg…. goodto know I’m not the only one ha!!